Building the bond with your dog is really
quite easy. If you recognize that you have a
relationship with your dog, then building the
bond comes down to nothing more than
increasing the strength of that relationship.
And as with any relationship, building a bond
requires:
1.) Spending quality time together.
2.) Getting out in the world and experiencing
life together.
3.) Establishing and promoting a level of
mutual respect.
4.) Developing a way of communicating so that
both individuals understand the other's needs.
(Hmmm... maybe I should be writing self-help
books for humans???)
Let's take a look at each of these key points
to see how they can have a positive affect on
your daily dog training:
1.) Spending quality time together.
Spending quality time together does not mean
sharing a beer with Fido while the two of you
lay in front of the television. Well, okay...
maybe it does.
But more importantly, it means committing to a
series of rituals and behaviors that you and
your dog can look forward to.
For example, I often throw Forbes (the Pit
Bull) in the back of the truck when I wake up
in the morning and we go for a drive down to
the local McDonald's Drive-thru. For most of
the drive, Forbes is either still wiping the
sleep out of his eyes, or he's doing the guard
dog routine if someone walks up to the back of
the truck.
But the highlight of this morning ritual
begins when we get home. It's Forbes' job to
hop out of the back of the truck and take the
empty McDonald's brown paper bag in his mouth,
walk down the drive way, around the gate, into
the back yard, and then over to the trash
can... where he drops the bag.
Sure, it's a stupid pet trick. But see how
disappointed the dog is when *I* insist on
carrying the bag to the trash can!
From the dog's point of view, it's the 30 or
40 little things throughout the day (that he
can help me with) that make his life worth
living. And for the dog, this is spending
quality. It all boils down to being an active
participant in each other's lives.
2.) Getting out in the world and experiencing
life together:
It had been years since Bud and Janice's kids
had grown and left the house for college and
later, corporate jobs. Bud had wanted a dog
for several months and Janice finally gave in.
They decided to adopt a beautiful 5 year-old
Golden Retriever and proceeded to train "Mac,"
using many of the techniques I describe in my
book, "Secrets of a Professional Dog Trainer!"
(To learn more about this book, go to http://hop.clickbank.net/?1greatdog/agkatz).
Janice got scared when Bud came back from his
first walk around the neighborhood with "Mac"
and ran into the house yelling, "Janice!
Janice! You won't believe what happened!!!"
"Oh my gawd," though Janice, thinking that
perhaps "Mac" had bitten a child, or run away.
"What happened?" Janice questioned her
husband.
"You won't believe it, Janice," said Bud, "I
took 'Mac' for a walk... AND PEOPLE ACTUALLY
CAME UP AND TALKED TO ME!!!"
Imagine that! Here's a guy who had lived in
the same neighborhood for eight years and
didn't know any of his neighbors until he got
a dog and started taking it for walks. Dogs
are a wonderful excuse to get you out of the
house and interacting with the world around
you.
It's also one of the many reasons that
handicapped people like owning service dogs...
because it makes it easier for other people to
come up and start a conversation.
And do you think that "Mac" minded all of the
attention? Absolutely not.
As a matter of fact, I think that my dog
Forbes is happiest when we're out in the
world, meeting new people and experiencing new
things together. Two best friends, out on the
town.
You should see the look on Forbes' face when
two or three beautiful women walk up and start
rubbing his belly.
Even better... you should see the look on my
face!
3.) Establishing and promoting a level of
mutual respect.
Just like with any relationship, there must be
mutual trust and respect.
Trust comes with time, and proving to your dog
that you will keep him safe and happy.
Respect, just like with human relationships,
comes from establishing boundaries and
treating any breach of those boundaries with
firmness and fairness. Without enforceable
boundaries, there is no respect. And when
there is no respect, your relationship with
your dog will be out of balance. And trust me,
when your relationship with your dog is out of
balance... nobody's having fun.
4.) Developing a way of communicating so that
both individuals understand the other's needs.
Developing a way of communicating gets back to
laying a proper foundation with your dog
training. And this relates specifically to
making your praise and your corrections
motivational.
Once your dog understands clearly when he's
doing something RIGHT... and when he's doing
something WRONG... a magical thing starts to
happen. You find that you are actually
COMMUNICATING!!!
And being able to communicate with your dog is
what allows you to go anywhere and do anything
with your dog and know that he'll listen to
you.
There are four primary ways that dogs
communicate with us, and with each other:
1.) Body language.
2.) Vocal tonation and voice inflection.
3.) Touch.
4.) Scent.
All of my dog training techniques try to
incorporate as many of these elements as
possible. In sum, you can think of dog
training as a word that can be easily
substituted for the word, "communication."
Do you want to be able to take your dog
anywhere, and KNOW that he'll listen to you...
even if tempted by another dog, a cat, or even
a piece of food??? Then check out: "Secrets of
a Professional Dog Trainer: An Insider's Guide
To The Most Jealously Guarded Dog Training
Secrets In History!" By Adam G. Katz, Owner of
South Bay K-9 Academy. For more information,
go to:
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About The Author
Author, “Secrets of a Professional Dog
Trainer!“ which you can read more about at:
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